It's been an eventful year for me personally. The year started off great as we are blessed with a baby girl (Mahalakshmi Gayatri) on Jan 2nd. I went to London in late Jan to coordinate the conference proceedings of SPUG - a telecom industry body. There was a change in my work life - with Sprint's economic troubles cutting short the account I am managing with them for SAIC. That put me on a contract with a California client - and made me fly across the continent frequently. My earlier weekly trips to Reston, VA seemed a breeze in comparison. However, after a couple of months of the cross-continental trips - I couldn't take it any more. And with 3 kids at home and Usha working full time - I opted out of the CA program and found another contract in July which allows me to work from home most of the time. As it turned out - I travelled only once to Reston, VA in the past 6 months. That's a great change for me - after being on the road for the most part of the past 7 years.
Usha is having a great year at the different hospitals she works - gaining very satisfied and loyal patients who want to be seen only by her.
Chandra has been practising his ukulele more and more and can now sing while playing it. Datta too started on his own ukulele. They both attended soccer training sessions this summer and enjoyed them very much. They are looking forward to another session starting in Jan.
We all vacationed for a few days in Belgium enroute to India in Sept. We enjoyed very much, beating our expectations, given that we travelled with 2 toddlers and an infant. Thank God we didn't take a short trip to Paris, as planned earlier. The kids loved India and want to go back again soon.
This is also the year we voted for the first time in our lives - in an election of significance. And to vote for a winning candidate is a great feeling. We look forward to Obama's inspirationsl Presidency.
On the flip side for this year, we saw our 401(K) savings doing a vanishing act - and we are glad we don't speculate in the stock market. The Mumbai events during the Thanksgiving holiday in November left a sickening feeling, which will be very hard to forget for a long time to come. It reinforced us to be more watchful of our own lives and how we lead them.
To cap off 2008 on a positive note, we had great pleasure organizing a great party of friends and family on Dec 28th in Piscataway, NJ. Everybody we invited, barring 3 or 4 families, attended the party. With 70 adults and 35 kids present - everybody had a great time. Santosh Khammamkar's music program was well received. Kids' impromptu dancing to the songs and the songs sung by friends turned a good event into a great one.
Quite an eventful year indeed. And we are ever so grateful for another memorable year.
Looking forward to another great year coming up where we try to realize our long term dream of returning to India...
Swasti !!
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Thanks for the Blast!
This past Sunday (Dec 28th) we hosted a get together party in Piscataway (NJ), the planning for which started more than a month ago. Datta turned 3 on Dec 23rd while Mahalakshmi turns 1 on Jan 2nd. And then the New Year is just around the corner. We haven't met with many of our old friends and family for quite some time. All in all - we decided to have the party in NJ so the venue will be accessible to people coming from different states in the NE corridor.
Venue: Party Hall behind Hi-Touch Wireless store in the Sukhsagar Restaurant strip mall.
Time: 11:30am - 3:00 pm (11:50am - 4:30 pm actual)
Scheduled Program: Cake cutting, Lunch, Music program by Sri Santosh Khammamkar
The party started on a very slow note as invitees started coming in around 11:45 and I was the only one from the host family receiving the guests and talking to them. But my conversation skills were not enough to keep them engaged. We needed Usha and the kids to bring charm to the gathering. Having only one vehicle, being used for getting things to the party hall from different places kept them and Haritha (my BiL Ravi's wife) stranded in the hotel. After a while, Ravi brought them to the party hall - past Noon and the party started coming to life.
My friends Satyasai and Lalita Kommaraju from Philly were the first to arrive, followed by Seshagiri and Rama from Edison. Then came my friend from Rutgers Satish Kethineni with his wife Srilakshmi and kids Sanjay and Sujay. While I was chatting with them, one of my maternal cousins Srinivas Kuchibhatla, whom I haven't met before, arrived with his family. And then a steady stream of friends and family started joining us. All in all, including us, we had 69 adults and 36 kids at the party.
It picked up tempo with enthusiastic participation from everyone present and by lunch time - with the menu that received good reviews - it really started to take off. Once the cake's cut the birthday party environment is in full swing and the kids had a good time jumping around and playing with the balloons (most of them were brought down and blasted by then).
Right after the lunch, just after 3:00 pm we started the music program. Our good friend Sriram Peyyety had his daughter Chy. Sreenidhi started the proceedings with a soulful rendition of a Lord Ganesha Bhajan (gajAnanayutam gaNESwaram). Sri Santosh Khammamkar started off his music program with a Kishore Kumar number and followed it up with numbers from Rafi and Mukesh, and mixed a few good telugu songs in between. Another good friend of ours Narasimham Kota had his daughter Chy. Sarvani dancing to the Bommarillu song - Apudo, ipudo, epudo kalagannane cheli. Sarvani showcased her talent with a smooth flowing dance to the song. His second daughter Chy. Manasa also danced to the Bham Bham BholE song sung by Santosh. Manasa is only 2 years old but danced very well and showed us all what's coming in the future. Narasimham garu himself showcased some cool steps in the process of encouraging his little daughter. Sriram garu started the dancing frenzy for the adults with his trademark steps and Narasimham garu joined followed by Ravi Nistala, my cousin's husband. Sriram garu pulled me as well to dance - and I obliged with my awkward-at-best steps.
We requested Smt. Sirisha Kotamraju (w/o Srinivas Kotamraju) to end the music program with her great rendition of 'nArAyaNatE namOnamO' song.
I need to mention here that all of this was made possible only with the gracious support provided by friends and family who covered several loose ends for us - before, during and after the event. And there were one too many of those, given that we were hosting the party about 180 miles away from home, in a different State. Bhargava made and brought yogurt for the party while also picking up the chapatis I ordered from a lady a little distance away from his home. Balu TKVL brought his mini-DVD camcorder to record the function. He also rushed to East Brunswick to pick up the Spinach balls curry, vadas and kaajaas from another lady I ordered them from. Seshagiri has been helping us right from the planning stages in booking the party hall and also picked up the main menu from another lady in Edison (Mango pappu, Brinjal allam/mirchi curry, sambar, Lemon rice, Dosakai pachchadi and papads). As we ran out of the pizzas for kids, he rushed out again to get another couple of them from the near by Pizza Hut.
Lalita, Padma (w/o Vikayakrishna TKVL) and Madhavi brought rice cookers while Susmitha (w/o Sundar) took charge of rice cooking. Santhi garu (oru distant relative and w/o Padmanabha Sastry - a family friend) and some other ladies at the party took charge of the food section - and making sure every body got everything they needed during the lunch. Santhi garu also helped in cutting the cake into pieces for all.
In the initial stages of party quietness, Sundar engaged the kids that were attending the party. And when we learnt that Santosh Khammamkar forgot bringing his Mixer, without which the music program cannot happen, Sundar went with Santosh to the near by Sam Ash to rent/buy a mixer. Having learnt that the equipment costs about $400+, we decided to go for a Karaoke machine from Walmart instead. And I requested Srinivas (Bhargava's BiL) to get it from the near by Walmart. He also took it upon himself to return it after the party :). Sankar and Vasantha took the boys with them to their house, so they can play with their son Mihir. That gave us the time to clean up the hall and return it in clean condition to the owners after the party. Sriram Nadimpalli helped with the video shooting while Satish helped engage the kids and took pictures of some nice occasions we missed.
Then there were others who helped us in other party logistics. All in all, almost everyone helped in making the party a grand success. The great part about it all is that everyone felt at home and took active part in the proceedings. Consider this: we had friends and family come from MA, NY, PA, VA, GA and of course NJ. Madhury and Ravi came to the party from a Boston suburb, with their 2 month old daughter Sri Lasya. Another dear friend Sriram Peyyety attended with his family having returned from India just the night before. Then there were Sundar and Susmitha who came from Reston, VA with their kids. My cousin Rani and her husband Ravi came with their 2 kids, from Falls Church, VA. We also had Sowmya and Prasad attending with their daughter, although they landed from Vegas just that morning - after taking a red eye flight.
My BiL Ravi and his wife Haritha have been of great help all along. They flew up from Columbus, GA for this party on Dec 25th itself, did a lot of planning, shopping, decorating and helped with many other logistics. We organized a few parties before - but all were close to our home, and none of this magnitude. Our heartfelt thanks to all that attended, participated and helped have a great time. We had a blast and we are already making plans for another party in 2009 :) We will see...
Swasti !!
Venue: Party Hall behind Hi-Touch Wireless store in the Sukhsagar Restaurant strip mall.
Time: 11:30am - 3:00 pm (11:50am - 4:30 pm actual)
Scheduled Program: Cake cutting, Lunch, Music program by Sri Santosh Khammamkar
The party started on a very slow note as invitees started coming in around 11:45 and I was the only one from the host family receiving the guests and talking to them. But my conversation skills were not enough to keep them engaged. We needed Usha and the kids to bring charm to the gathering. Having only one vehicle, being used for getting things to the party hall from different places kept them and Haritha (my BiL Ravi's wife) stranded in the hotel. After a while, Ravi brought them to the party hall - past Noon and the party started coming to life.
My friends Satyasai and Lalita Kommaraju from Philly were the first to arrive, followed by Seshagiri and Rama from Edison. Then came my friend from Rutgers Satish Kethineni with his wife Srilakshmi and kids Sanjay and Sujay. While I was chatting with them, one of my maternal cousins Srinivas Kuchibhatla, whom I haven't met before, arrived with his family. And then a steady stream of friends and family started joining us. All in all, including us, we had 69 adults and 36 kids at the party.
It picked up tempo with enthusiastic participation from everyone present and by lunch time - with the menu that received good reviews - it really started to take off. Once the cake's cut the birthday party environment is in full swing and the kids had a good time jumping around and playing with the balloons (most of them were brought down and blasted by then).
Right after the lunch, just after 3:00 pm we started the music program. Our good friend Sriram Peyyety had his daughter Chy. Sreenidhi started the proceedings with a soulful rendition of a Lord Ganesha Bhajan (gajAnanayutam gaNESwaram). Sri Santosh Khammamkar started off his music program with a Kishore Kumar number and followed it up with numbers from Rafi and Mukesh, and mixed a few good telugu songs in between. Another good friend of ours Narasimham Kota had his daughter Chy. Sarvani dancing to the Bommarillu song - Apudo, ipudo, epudo kalagannane cheli. Sarvani showcased her talent with a smooth flowing dance to the song. His second daughter Chy. Manasa also danced to the Bham Bham BholE song sung by Santosh. Manasa is only 2 years old but danced very well and showed us all what's coming in the future. Narasimham garu himself showcased some cool steps in the process of encouraging his little daughter. Sriram garu started the dancing frenzy for the adults with his trademark steps and Narasimham garu joined followed by Ravi Nistala, my cousin's husband. Sriram garu pulled me as well to dance - and I obliged with my awkward-at-best steps.
We requested Smt. Sirisha Kotamraju (w/o Srinivas Kotamraju) to end the music program with her great rendition of 'nArAyaNatE namOnamO' song.
I need to mention here that all of this was made possible only with the gracious support provided by friends and family who covered several loose ends for us - before, during and after the event. And there were one too many of those, given that we were hosting the party about 180 miles away from home, in a different State. Bhargava made and brought yogurt for the party while also picking up the chapatis I ordered from a lady a little distance away from his home. Balu TKVL brought his mini-DVD camcorder to record the function. He also rushed to East Brunswick to pick up the Spinach balls curry, vadas and kaajaas from another lady I ordered them from. Seshagiri has been helping us right from the planning stages in booking the party hall and also picked up the main menu from another lady in Edison (Mango pappu, Brinjal allam/mirchi curry, sambar, Lemon rice, Dosakai pachchadi and papads). As we ran out of the pizzas for kids, he rushed out again to get another couple of them from the near by Pizza Hut.
Lalita, Padma (w/o Vikayakrishna TKVL) and Madhavi brought rice cookers while Susmitha (w/o Sundar) took charge of rice cooking. Santhi garu (oru distant relative and w/o Padmanabha Sastry - a family friend) and some other ladies at the party took charge of the food section - and making sure every body got everything they needed during the lunch. Santhi garu also helped in cutting the cake into pieces for all.
In the initial stages of party quietness, Sundar engaged the kids that were attending the party. And when we learnt that Santosh Khammamkar forgot bringing his Mixer, without which the music program cannot happen, Sundar went with Santosh to the near by Sam Ash to rent/buy a mixer. Having learnt that the equipment costs about $400+, we decided to go for a Karaoke machine from Walmart instead. And I requested Srinivas (Bhargava's BiL) to get it from the near by Walmart. He also took it upon himself to return it after the party :). Sankar and Vasantha took the boys with them to their house, so they can play with their son Mihir. That gave us the time to clean up the hall and return it in clean condition to the owners after the party. Sriram Nadimpalli helped with the video shooting while Satish helped engage the kids and took pictures of some nice occasions we missed.
Then there were others who helped us in other party logistics. All in all, almost everyone helped in making the party a grand success. The great part about it all is that everyone felt at home and took active part in the proceedings. Consider this: we had friends and family come from MA, NY, PA, VA, GA and of course NJ. Madhury and Ravi came to the party from a Boston suburb, with their 2 month old daughter Sri Lasya. Another dear friend Sriram Peyyety attended with his family having returned from India just the night before. Then there were Sundar and Susmitha who came from Reston, VA with their kids. My cousin Rani and her husband Ravi came with their 2 kids, from Falls Church, VA. We also had Sowmya and Prasad attending with their daughter, although they landed from Vegas just that morning - after taking a red eye flight.
My BiL Ravi and his wife Haritha have been of great help all along. They flew up from Columbus, GA for this party on Dec 25th itself, did a lot of planning, shopping, decorating and helped with many other logistics. We organized a few parties before - but all were close to our home, and none of this magnitude. Our heartfelt thanks to all that attended, participated and helped have a great time. We had a blast and we are already making plans for another party in 2009 :) We will see...
Swasti !!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
It's the party that matters !!
Today is Datta's third birthday. He's been planning on what to do and how to do it on this day for a few weeks now. He changed the menu many a time. And all it included was a cake which changed many faces from Diego to Mickey to Backyardigans to Thomas to Wiggles to Nemo to Diego again. Luckily for us, that's the last choice and we went ahead and ordered the Diego cup cakes.
As the day approached his excitement found no bounds and with just 2 days to go - he caught fever and started throwing up. After a day of fasting and taking only electrolytes, he improved only to do it all over again this morning. From the afternoon he got better - and we finally decided to take him to the day care to celebrate his birthday. So we all went - and his class was delighted to see him back.
He was accorded the royal treatment, given a custom birthday hat (made then and there) and everybody sang the birthday song. His eyes lit up like the brightest stars and he was filled with great joy. He 'blessed' the cupcakes and goody bags to be distributed - and everybody feasted on the Diego cupcakes. But he didn't eat much of it - other than taking a finger or two tastings of the cream on top. He would have nothing more. But he seemed full and content. All he cared for was being with friends, celebrating his birthday with them and his teachers and going through the party atmosphere - which he's been looking forward to for a long time.
I am sure he will tell stories of this day for a few days or even weeks. And I am glad he was in a decent shape to go to the daycare for this party. Kids are amazing - and always teach us how to savor the simple things of life. It's the party/togetherness that matters - not the cake!
Swasti !!
As the day approached his excitement found no bounds and with just 2 days to go - he caught fever and started throwing up. After a day of fasting and taking only electrolytes, he improved only to do it all over again this morning. From the afternoon he got better - and we finally decided to take him to the day care to celebrate his birthday. So we all went - and his class was delighted to see him back.
He was accorded the royal treatment, given a custom birthday hat (made then and there) and everybody sang the birthday song. His eyes lit up like the brightest stars and he was filled with great joy. He 'blessed' the cupcakes and goody bags to be distributed - and everybody feasted on the Diego cupcakes. But he didn't eat much of it - other than taking a finger or two tastings of the cream on top. He would have nothing more. But he seemed full and content. All he cared for was being with friends, celebrating his birthday with them and his teachers and going through the party atmosphere - which he's been looking forward to for a long time.
I am sure he will tell stories of this day for a few days or even weeks. And I am glad he was in a decent shape to go to the daycare for this party. Kids are amazing - and always teach us how to savor the simple things of life. It's the party/togetherness that matters - not the cake!
Swasti !!
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Disney Ignorance
This past Wednesday night we all went to the Disney on Ice show in the Times Union Center here in Albany. The theme of this year's show is Celebrating 100 Years of Magic. I didn't know that Disney Magic is already 100 years old. I was thinking it's about 70 years or so since it started.
Both the boys enjoyed the show very much and surprisingly Mahalakshmi had a good time as well, until the last 15 minutes - watching all the characters troop onto the stage and perform their act. I must admit I didn't know half the characters. And some of the characters never showed up. I don't understand why Disney preserves the Mickey character so much - and doesn't make it spend much time on stage. May be they think that's one way of preserving and extending the magic of Mickey. I felt bad for the person donning that costume - he/she must have spent a ton of time getting ready - but all they spend on stage is under 5 minutes in the 80 minute show.
We got the first two seats in two consecutive rows - so Datta and I were sitting behind Usha and Chandra. Whenever I didn't recognize a character (which was one too many) I was asking Usha who it was, bending down and whispering in her ear. And my neighbour, a big man with a kid's enthusiasm - is annoyed that I didn't know nothing but still showed up. I guess I didn't do my homework well! Our trip to the Disney World last year did help raise my Disney knowledge though. The kids and their rhymes/stories books definitely help.
All in all, it was a decent show and I don't think I can sit through another viewing. Last month we went to the Wiggles show and we thoroughly enjoyed it. The kids are excited though - and they might drag me into the next year's as well. We'll see.
Swasti!!
Both the boys enjoyed the show very much and surprisingly Mahalakshmi had a good time as well, until the last 15 minutes - watching all the characters troop onto the stage and perform their act. I must admit I didn't know half the characters. And some of the characters never showed up. I don't understand why Disney preserves the Mickey character so much - and doesn't make it spend much time on stage. May be they think that's one way of preserving and extending the magic of Mickey. I felt bad for the person donning that costume - he/she must have spent a ton of time getting ready - but all they spend on stage is under 5 minutes in the 80 minute show.
We got the first two seats in two consecutive rows - so Datta and I were sitting behind Usha and Chandra. Whenever I didn't recognize a character (which was one too many) I was asking Usha who it was, bending down and whispering in her ear. And my neighbour, a big man with a kid's enthusiasm - is annoyed that I didn't know nothing but still showed up. I guess I didn't do my homework well! Our trip to the Disney World last year did help raise my Disney knowledge though. The kids and their rhymes/stories books definitely help.
All in all, it was a decent show and I don't think I can sit through another viewing. Last month we went to the Wiggles show and we thoroughly enjoyed it. The kids are excited though - and they might drag me into the next year's as well. We'll see.
Swasti!!
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Corruption: Bigger than it sounds
As we observe today as Non-Corruption Day, the main focus is on raising awareness in the public, and not taking part in any bribing for getting things done. Some of my friends have been working hard to get the message out to the masses in India. On my part, I started big with grand plans, as always, reached out to tens of media outlets, could talk to a few of them and finally convinced a couple or so of them to run an ad/news item about today (see note below). I also sent out emails to many groups I subscribe to and tried to reach as many as I could. Although the result is not in line with the start - I take solace in the saying - Shoot for the moon... 'cause even if you miss, you'll end up in the stars.
For the past few days, as I stayed home to take care of my little daughter who can't go to day care due to fever and gagging reflux - I have been thinking of what to write next on my blog. With Dec 18th coming up, I didn't want anything else to take over the front page of my blog - so I left the previous article to stay on top. Of course, that thought also played into my natural state of inertia. Nevertheless, when I think of corruption in depth - it looked bigger than it sounds to me. We only talk of financial corruption, most of the time. And that's what we see (and think is) affecting people, directly. However when we think of cultural and moral corruption; and add thought corruption to it - the scale of impact grows beyond comprehension. Bribes, I think, are but an outward expression by some, of internal corruption in these forms.
The basic principle of life is to be happy. Towards this end, we try and do anything and everything we think will make and keep us happy. In the process, we are inflicting great misery on others and in turn on ourselves. Hence, we feel happy for a moment but we cannot keep that state of mind for long. We then go on perpetrating more of the same to gain those intermittent happy moments - and thus falling into the unending cycle of unhappiness. Well - there you go - I made it even more abstract :)
trikaraNa Sudhdhi - is the term used by our elders, when they ask us to think, say and act good. The three faculties here are: mind (thoughts), voice (words) and body (deeds). If all three are in unison and strive for the same, nothing is impossible - per the scriptures and our elders. That's how an uncorrupt mind and body is developed and sustained - which makes us happy and keeps us happy. If we think something but don't say it; if we say something but don't do it - then we are always in conflict with ourselves; and to mask the inner conflict we raise the curtains to the great drama of self-deception and run after the ever evading fruit of happiness. After all, the fruit is not outside but within - but we look for it everywhere else. What a futile attempt?!
I would like to delve deeper into this subject and address many of my own thoughts - but let me use this as a lead in to subsequent posts in the future (and spare you all for now :) ).
Here's my earnest appeal - to one and all (myself included, of course) on this Non-Corruption Day. Let's give this trikaraNa Sudhdhi concept a deep thought; contemplate on it and see how we can make some small changes to accommodate this great ideal in our lives. I am sure practising this will have a profound, transformational affect on us. This, I think, will be the greatest tribute to observing Non-Corruption in our lives.
Swasti !!
NOTE (on Dec 19th): When enquired about the news item/ad - I am told that UN already declared Dec 9th as International Anti-Corruption Day. Hence they were not able to run any item about Dec 18th. I should have checked about it online. I was a little embarassed when I was told of Dec 9th. However, I told myself that it's been a good effort - and although we were not able to do it on a scale we envisioned - we did learn some good lessons in the process. Thanks to all who supported the cause.
For the past few days, as I stayed home to take care of my little daughter who can't go to day care due to fever and gagging reflux - I have been thinking of what to write next on my blog. With Dec 18th coming up, I didn't want anything else to take over the front page of my blog - so I left the previous article to stay on top. Of course, that thought also played into my natural state of inertia. Nevertheless, when I think of corruption in depth - it looked bigger than it sounds to me. We only talk of financial corruption, most of the time. And that's what we see (and think is) affecting people, directly. However when we think of cultural and moral corruption; and add thought corruption to it - the scale of impact grows beyond comprehension. Bribes, I think, are but an outward expression by some, of internal corruption in these forms.
The basic principle of life is to be happy. Towards this end, we try and do anything and everything we think will make and keep us happy. In the process, we are inflicting great misery on others and in turn on ourselves. Hence, we feel happy for a moment but we cannot keep that state of mind for long. We then go on perpetrating more of the same to gain those intermittent happy moments - and thus falling into the unending cycle of unhappiness. Well - there you go - I made it even more abstract :)
trikaraNa Sudhdhi - is the term used by our elders, when they ask us to think, say and act good. The three faculties here are: mind (thoughts), voice (words) and body (deeds). If all three are in unison and strive for the same, nothing is impossible - per the scriptures and our elders. That's how an uncorrupt mind and body is developed and sustained - which makes us happy and keeps us happy. If we think something but don't say it; if we say something but don't do it - then we are always in conflict with ourselves; and to mask the inner conflict we raise the curtains to the great drama of self-deception and run after the ever evading fruit of happiness. After all, the fruit is not outside but within - but we look for it everywhere else. What a futile attempt?!
I would like to delve deeper into this subject and address many of my own thoughts - but let me use this as a lead in to subsequent posts in the future (and spare you all for now :) ).
Here's my earnest appeal - to one and all (myself included, of course) on this Non-Corruption Day. Let's give this trikaraNa Sudhdhi concept a deep thought; contemplate on it and see how we can make some small changes to accommodate this great ideal in our lives. I am sure practising this will have a profound, transformational affect on us. This, I think, will be the greatest tribute to observing Non-Corruption in our lives.
Swasti !!
NOTE (on Dec 19th): When enquired about the news item/ad - I am told that UN already declared Dec 9th as International Anti-Corruption Day. Hence they were not able to run any item about Dec 18th. I should have checked about it online. I was a little embarassed when I was told of Dec 9th. However, I told myself that it's been a good effort - and although we were not able to do it on a scale we envisioned - we did learn some good lessons in the process. Thanks to all who supported the cause.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Dec 18th - Non-Corruption Day
As the day nears, and as we reach out to our firends, family and strangers as well - it's important to focus our efforts and reach as many as we can. When I talked to many, some of them joined readily, some were skeptical, and yet some others had questions. I will try to cover some of them here.
What is the Cause?
Non-Corruption. (Understand the evil effects of corruption and raise awareness among others at the same time exhorting them to observe a non-corrupt way of life - especially in politics and administration (as it impacts multitudes))
Why Dec 18th?
This idea of having a Non Corruption Day started about 10 days ago. At that time, Dec 18th looked like not too far off to lose sight of it; and not too close so we have time to reach out to many people. And it also happens to be a day to remember for the person (Vasantha) who came up with the idea.
What do I do for this?
Three simple things:
1) Take up the cause of Non-Corruption and reach out to as many as you can (enlist the support of atleast 5 others)
2) On 18th - make sure not to give or take bribes to get things done.
3) Discourage it and report it to appropriate authorities, if you come across any acts of corruption.
What's the goal?
- Reach out to as many people as we can;
- Raise awareness on the evil effects of Corruption;
- Educate them on what we can do as individuals to curb it
What happens in just one day of observance?
It's a good start. We intend to increase the awareness in the population by this focused effort. The intention is that people will take it forward to subsequent days, weeks and months as well.
What's the extent of Corruption in India?
India is ranked #89 among 160 nations surveyed, according to http://www.nationmaster.com/. It goes to show that we are in the bottom half of the equation. Sri Lanka is better placed than us at #81.
According to Transparency International, India scored about 3.5 out of 10 in 2007 (See image above). Again, nothing to write home about.
According to the ex-Chief Vigilance Commissioner Sri N. Vittal:
"Corruption is harmful in three different ways:
1) Corruption is anti-national.
2) Corruption is anti-poor. Rajiv Gandhi once observed that out of every rupee meant for the anti- poverty programmes only 15 paise reached the beneficiary. Out of the 85 paise may be 40 paise can be accounted for as administrative overheads. The leakage of the remaining 45 paise is definitely due to corruption. Corruption is, therefore, anti-poor.
3) Corruption is also anti-economic development."
[We know what role corruption would have played in playing out the Mumbai attacks, although it's premature to conclude about it while the investigation is still on. But we are not naive not to know where it went wrong and how corruption played a part at various levels of the food chain.]
Read more of what Sri Vittal has to say at http://www.hindustan.org/forum/showthread.php?t=2002
REMEMBER: Pass the word about Dec 18th - National Non-Corruption Day to as many people as you can, with the simple message: Don't give, encourage or take bribes - of any sort on that day.
Of course, not many of our friends might feel the effects of corruption or even this effort; but if we can touch atleast some people who have to pay to get their work done; who take to do others' work - if they can observe this day as Non-Corruption Day - and if even a tiny % of those folks feel the difference in their heart - the good feeling....the purpose would be met.
Corruption is an all-pervading evil that affects one and all in one way or the other and has reached a stage where it's crippling our society. We all want to do something about it - but don't do anything. So, this is our chance, to do that 'drop in the ocean' now and continue it - so when hundreds, thousands and millions come together, we might be able to influence the outcome.
Hopeful of a better tomorrow -
Swasti !!
Tuesday, December 09, 2008
Corruption - the common language
More and more cases of political corruption are seeing the light of the day in US recently. It was the NJ Governor 4 years ago (my first home state in US); the NY Governor earlier this year (my current home state); and then it's the Illinois Governor's turn today. Thank God I didn't live in Illinois - otherwise I would have felt miserable.
Add the scores of senators, members of the Congress and State Assemblies and others in public offices all across the country - and the list really grows big. Well one would say - the India CP (Corrupt Politicians) list would still dwarf the US CP list. That might be true. But still, for a country that's ranked in the top 20 non-corrupt nations - it's still a huge embarassment. For India, the length of the list is in line with its ranking (#89).
It is despicable what Rod B. tried to do - selling Obama's senate seat. It looks like two ends of the extreme - with Obama winning on the reform plank. It only goes to show that politicians across the globe speak the same language.
Don't Forget: Dec 18th is India's National Non-Corruption Day. Your part is simple: Don't give-in; Don't give-out; Don't even think about it - And keep reliving these thoughts every day thereafter. Please pass the word around.
Swasti !!
Add the scores of senators, members of the Congress and State Assemblies and others in public offices all across the country - and the list really grows big. Well one would say - the India CP (Corrupt Politicians) list would still dwarf the US CP list. That might be true. But still, for a country that's ranked in the top 20 non-corrupt nations - it's still a huge embarassment. For India, the length of the list is in line with its ranking (#89).
It is despicable what Rod B. tried to do - selling Obama's senate seat. It looks like two ends of the extreme - with Obama winning on the reform plank. It only goes to show that politicians across the globe speak the same language.
Don't Forget: Dec 18th is India's National Non-Corruption Day. Your part is simple: Don't give-in; Don't give-out; Don't even think about it - And keep reliving these thoughts every day thereafter. Please pass the word around.
Swasti !!
Saturday, December 06, 2008
Sun not here yet?
Last night Chandra and Datta were playing games on nickjr.com and didn't want to go to bed. Since it's Friday night, we let them play a little longer. But it's getting past 10pm and we had to somehow break them away from the computer. Datta is not happy at all - and wanted the Sun to stay longer - so they can play longer.
It reminded me of an incident from a few weeks ago, after we returned from our India trip. One night the boys woke me up - as they were going through jet-lag and couldn't sleep any further. It was just 3am but they wanted to get active and play. However, I was fast asleep....and wished they just went back to sleep.
Then they used their unfailing trick - "I need to go pee". If I don't take them to the bathroom - I know what could happen...so I dragged myself out of the bed and took them to the bathroom. Chandra was done but Datta was still on his potty - and chatting away as I sit in front of him, at a distance - for him to finish off - so I can put them to bed and I can doze off. All of a sudden, he made a comment that drove my sleep away and cracked me up in laughter.
Here it goes...
Datta: Why is it night all the time? I want to go downstairs and play.
Me: The Moon is still here. If you sleep for some more time, then the Moon will go away and the Sun will come up. Then it will be morning time and you can play.
Datta: I want it to be morning now. Why is Sun not here yet? I want to hit the Moon and kick the Sun.
What can I say to this kid?
Swasti !!
It reminded me of an incident from a few weeks ago, after we returned from our India trip. One night the boys woke me up - as they were going through jet-lag and couldn't sleep any further. It was just 3am but they wanted to get active and play. However, I was fast asleep....and wished they just went back to sleep.
Then they used their unfailing trick - "I need to go pee". If I don't take them to the bathroom - I know what could happen...so I dragged myself out of the bed and took them to the bathroom. Chandra was done but Datta was still on his potty - and chatting away as I sit in front of him, at a distance - for him to finish off - so I can put them to bed and I can doze off. All of a sudden, he made a comment that drove my sleep away and cracked me up in laughter.
Here it goes...
Datta: Why is it night all the time? I want to go downstairs and play.
Me: The Moon is still here. If you sleep for some more time, then the Moon will go away and the Sun will come up. Then it will be morning time and you can play.
Datta: I want it to be morning now. Why is Sun not here yet? I want to hit the Moon and kick the Sun.
What can I say to this kid?
Swasti !!
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Yoga without prayers?
We went to the local Hindu temple to participate in the Diwali celebrations in October. While there, I saw a flyer about Pranayama classes being conducted in the old temple building every Tuesday and Saturday. I promptly called the contact number and was told that the session is already in progress for 3 weeks, and that it is an 8 week course. The instructor advised me to sign up for the next session starting in November. I agreed, asked him to add me to the roster and thanked him.
On the appointed date, I went to the first class in November. As it's a weekday evening, by the time I helped Usha partly to get the kids settled and left for the temple- I had just about time to reach the class on the hour. On top of that, I didn't know where the old temple bldg. is - so I went into the current temple and went to the back of it - thinking that's where it's got to be. However, I ran into a temple Board meeting and was promptly given the directions to the old temple building.
It turns out that that the bldg. where the priests' quarters are located housed the temple earlier - before my time in Albany. So, in all this going around - I was a few minutes late to the initial class and by the time I went in - they were already going through the intros. I later learned that I missed the starting prayers only.
There were 2 whites (americans) and 3 Indians apart from me in the class. Apparently it was a smaller than usual class size. The instructor, an Indian guy in my age group, is seated in Vajrasana on the elevated platform. He seemed very calm and has a low voice. He walked us through how to sit in Vajrasana, explained the significance of Aum (Om) and started us off with a few chantings of the primordial sound. He then led us through the basics of pranayama and a few rhythmic breathings. After some more lecture and guiding us, we said the ending prayers - 90 minutes later - and dispersed.
I didn't find the two white americans in the second class. We had 3 more Indians joining the class instead. So, we went through the introductions, basics one more time - and then learnt about Shavasana for relaxation. The instructor asked us to lie down on the floor, dimmed the lights and walked us through focusing on various parts of the body so we can make sure there's no tension in those parts and they are relaxed. Truth be told, after the first couple of parts, either due to the dimmed lights or due to his very low voice - coupled with a strenuous day which included some brisk aerobics in the gym (yeah - I started going to the gym as well recently and more on that later) - I didn't know when I dozed off. The instructor was next to me when I woke up - and he was giving me instructions to wake up, rub my palms and put them on my eyes - as the lights are bright and since I was waking up from rest. I just acted as if I am getting up from my pose and felt a little embarassed for actually dozing off all of 6 minutes. Well - the purpose of the pose was served, I felt, albeit in some other way.
We then went through some breathing exercises and said our session ending prayers and dispersed. When I went for the third class, I didn't see the americans still. I wonder if their absence has got to do with the chanting of prayers on either side of the session. The instructor, in the first class, even went to the extent of trying to explain the significance of the prayers (praising the teachers who are none but the Holy Trinity themselves; surrendering ourselves to the teachers so we are prepared to receive the knowledge etc. etc.) and also promised to send the exact meanings of all the prayers being chanted, via e-mail.
I read recently in the media that Malaysian leaders banned Yoga for Muslims - as the instruction contained Hindu hymns. After several weeks of imposing the ban and negotiations or protests (?) apparently they relented to let the yoga instruction continue, without the singing of the hymns. I wonder if my missing classmates find them offensive or not to their liking as well. Not sure what the reason is. I thought of discussing this aspect with the instructor, but decided against it - as all the attendees now are Indians and I barely arrive in the class on time - and have to leave immediately after the session ends - so as to make sure Usha is not left with the kids alone for too long.
Has any one observed similar incidents that turned the otherwise interested foreigners off? Do you think yoga and prayers should not be mixed; and yoga should be seen purely as a form of exercise? As for me - I am fine and even glad to have the prayers; but don't mind accommodating the non-prayer version if that would mean the foreigners would join as well. After all, I can still say my prayers silently.
May be I am judging the missing candidates unnecessarily - and may be they are not attending for some other reason. I don't know. Although I am not being able to practise what's covered in class on other days at home as much as the instructor wants us to - I would atleast like to go for all the 8 weeks to get into the habit slowly.
I will udpate you later - but would like to hear from you in the meanwhile.
Swasti !!
On the appointed date, I went to the first class in November. As it's a weekday evening, by the time I helped Usha partly to get the kids settled and left for the temple- I had just about time to reach the class on the hour. On top of that, I didn't know where the old temple bldg. is - so I went into the current temple and went to the back of it - thinking that's where it's got to be. However, I ran into a temple Board meeting and was promptly given the directions to the old temple building.
It turns out that that the bldg. where the priests' quarters are located housed the temple earlier - before my time in Albany. So, in all this going around - I was a few minutes late to the initial class and by the time I went in - they were already going through the intros. I later learned that I missed the starting prayers only.
There were 2 whites (americans) and 3 Indians apart from me in the class. Apparently it was a smaller than usual class size. The instructor, an Indian guy in my age group, is seated in Vajrasana on the elevated platform. He seemed very calm and has a low voice. He walked us through how to sit in Vajrasana, explained the significance of Aum (Om) and started us off with a few chantings of the primordial sound. He then led us through the basics of pranayama and a few rhythmic breathings. After some more lecture and guiding us, we said the ending prayers - 90 minutes later - and dispersed.
I didn't find the two white americans in the second class. We had 3 more Indians joining the class instead. So, we went through the introductions, basics one more time - and then learnt about Shavasana for relaxation. The instructor asked us to lie down on the floor, dimmed the lights and walked us through focusing on various parts of the body so we can make sure there's no tension in those parts and they are relaxed. Truth be told, after the first couple of parts, either due to the dimmed lights or due to his very low voice - coupled with a strenuous day which included some brisk aerobics in the gym (yeah - I started going to the gym as well recently and more on that later) - I didn't know when I dozed off. The instructor was next to me when I woke up - and he was giving me instructions to wake up, rub my palms and put them on my eyes - as the lights are bright and since I was waking up from rest. I just acted as if I am getting up from my pose and felt a little embarassed for actually dozing off all of 6 minutes. Well - the purpose of the pose was served, I felt, albeit in some other way.
We then went through some breathing exercises and said our session ending prayers and dispersed. When I went for the third class, I didn't see the americans still. I wonder if their absence has got to do with the chanting of prayers on either side of the session. The instructor, in the first class, even went to the extent of trying to explain the significance of the prayers (praising the teachers who are none but the Holy Trinity themselves; surrendering ourselves to the teachers so we are prepared to receive the knowledge etc. etc.) and also promised to send the exact meanings of all the prayers being chanted, via e-mail.
I read recently in the media that Malaysian leaders banned Yoga for Muslims - as the instruction contained Hindu hymns. After several weeks of imposing the ban and negotiations or protests (?) apparently they relented to let the yoga instruction continue, without the singing of the hymns. I wonder if my missing classmates find them offensive or not to their liking as well. Not sure what the reason is. I thought of discussing this aspect with the instructor, but decided against it - as all the attendees now are Indians and I barely arrive in the class on time - and have to leave immediately after the session ends - so as to make sure Usha is not left with the kids alone for too long.
Has any one observed similar incidents that turned the otherwise interested foreigners off? Do you think yoga and prayers should not be mixed; and yoga should be seen purely as a form of exercise? As for me - I am fine and even glad to have the prayers; but don't mind accommodating the non-prayer version if that would mean the foreigners would join as well. After all, I can still say my prayers silently.
May be I am judging the missing candidates unnecessarily - and may be they are not attending for some other reason. I don't know. Although I am not being able to practise what's covered in class on other days at home as much as the instructor wants us to - I would atleast like to go for all the 8 weeks to get into the habit slowly.
I will udpate you later - but would like to hear from you in the meanwhile.
Swasti !!
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
Hope and Reality
With Megastar Chiranjeevi making his entry into Andhra Pradesh Politics and forming his party setup, as with any new entrant, I look forward with hope and pray the reality that set in, in the past, doesn't repeat.
I hope Chiru:
1) brings in the much needed change in the AP politics
2) does not resort to cheap tactics of mud slinging at the opponents
3) comes with a clear and succinct agenda
4) proposes good ideas for development and welfare
5) backs them up with good plans of action
6) builds a grass roots level movement to combat the primary evils in our society - corruption, extremism and economic imbalance (poverty)
7) brings in fresh blood into the polity rather than harboring the so called 'leaders' with corrupt and criminal background
8) joins hands with the idealistic parties like Lok Satta and work for improving the politics
9) studies the issues plaguing our society and talks about them and his ideas from his heart
10) breathes and becomes the change we want to see for a Better AP
So far, the reality has been anything but reflecting my hope. Agreed, he is a novice and needs the support of the veterans who can steer him against the dirty dozens in the opposing camps. Our society needs a fresh start - fresh minds, fresh thinking - from the roots. Not from the top.
As Einstein once famously said: No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.
If Chiru is trying to bring about the change by surrounding himself with the same people who were part of the problem in the first place, he is already dousing my hopes.
However, Hope is Eternal and I continue to hope for better - until proven otherwise completely.
Swasti !!
I hope Chiru:
1) brings in the much needed change in the AP politics
2) does not resort to cheap tactics of mud slinging at the opponents
3) comes with a clear and succinct agenda
4) proposes good ideas for development and welfare
5) backs them up with good plans of action
6) builds a grass roots level movement to combat the primary evils in our society - corruption, extremism and economic imbalance (poverty)
7) brings in fresh blood into the polity rather than harboring the so called 'leaders' with corrupt and criminal background
8) joins hands with the idealistic parties like Lok Satta and work for improving the politics
9) studies the issues plaguing our society and talks about them and his ideas from his heart
10) breathes and becomes the change we want to see for a Better AP
So far, the reality has been anything but reflecting my hope. Agreed, he is a novice and needs the support of the veterans who can steer him against the dirty dozens in the opposing camps. Our society needs a fresh start - fresh minds, fresh thinking - from the roots. Not from the top.
As Einstein once famously said: No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.
If Chiru is trying to bring about the change by surrounding himself with the same people who were part of the problem in the first place, he is already dousing my hopes.
However, Hope is Eternal and I continue to hope for better - until proven otherwise completely.
Swasti !!
Monday, December 01, 2008
Obama all the way
I am amused at the way Obama is bringing all opposing voices into his camp by making them part of his administration. Either he wants to please every one or doesn't like voices of dissent.
Today's appointment of Hillary, his Primary opponent, as Secretary of State is a master stroke - I must say - in many respects.
1) She cannot grow into an alternative power center in the Democratic Party
2) She cannot voice her dissent any more on anything of importance, done by the administration - being a part of it.
3) If she performs great - most, if not all, of the credit goes to O - for hiring her as the Secy. of State.
4) If she doesn't perform well - he can ease her out and can't be blamed for trusting such a strong lady with the plum post. The fault is all hers.
5) What more - she doesn't stand a chance of challenging him, if she wants to, for the 2012 election - whatever his administration's performance is. 2016 and beyond will effectively be beyond her anyway.
6) This particular position was occupied by at least two other ladies in the recent past - Madeline Albright and Condy Rice - so nothing special for Hillary.
7) She can't even pay off her campaign debt, as she can't raise any more funds being a part of the administration - and not seeking re-election. It has to wait longer.
If Obama and his inner circle of advisers are so shrewd and smart - I hope they are as smart in governing. Let's hope for the best - and look forward to Jan 20th. I also wish Hillary all the best for bringing about the change in the world's perception of USA; and effectively managing the 'challenging' states.
Swasti !!
Today's appointment of Hillary, his Primary opponent, as Secretary of State is a master stroke - I must say - in many respects.
1) She cannot grow into an alternative power center in the Democratic Party
2) She cannot voice her dissent any more on anything of importance, done by the administration - being a part of it.
3) If she performs great - most, if not all, of the credit goes to O - for hiring her as the Secy. of State.
4) If she doesn't perform well - he can ease her out and can't be blamed for trusting such a strong lady with the plum post. The fault is all hers.
5) What more - she doesn't stand a chance of challenging him, if she wants to, for the 2012 election - whatever his administration's performance is. 2016 and beyond will effectively be beyond her anyway.
6) This particular position was occupied by at least two other ladies in the recent past - Madeline Albright and Condy Rice - so nothing special for Hillary.
7) She can't even pay off her campaign debt, as she can't raise any more funds being a part of the administration - and not seeking re-election. It has to wait longer.
If Obama and his inner circle of advisers are so shrewd and smart - I hope they are as smart in governing. Let's hope for the best - and look forward to Jan 20th. I also wish Hillary all the best for bringing about the change in the world's perception of USA; and effectively managing the 'challenging' states.
Swasti !!
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Raging Questions
As the Mumbai siege came to an end and we sigh a breath of relief at the long and vicious ordeal, many questions run through my mind. Just jotting them down here - and if you have any you would like to add, feel free to join. If you think you have an answer - please chime in.
I understand I should be constructive and try to offer solutions. Let's raise all the relevant, valid questions - and don't be ashamed of doing so. From the questions, and our attempt to answer them, will come the thinking necessary for providing constructive suggestions. (These are not sorted in any particular order or priority)
I understand I should be constructive and try to offer solutions. Let's raise all the relevant, valid questions - and don't be ashamed of doing so. From the questions, and our attempt to answer them, will come the thinking necessary for providing constructive suggestions. (These are not sorted in any particular order or priority)
1) Why did Hemant Karkare, Vijay Salaskar and others - who are higher up in the ranks - go into the 'battle field' at the first news of terrorist attacks? Shouldn't they have assessed the situation before blindly jumping in?
2) With their experience and 'leadership' abilities, shouldn't they be directing their forces through the operations with proper plans than taking a single step approach of "Let's all go in and take the enemy on"?
3) Aren't their services better utilized at times like these, through their strategic thinking than their mere presence in the field?
4) How could HK get hit with bullets in his chest, when he is wearing a supposedly bullet proof vest? Are our security forces equipped with such sub-standard, 'Made-in-China' type body armour?
5) Doesn't HK know what the capacity of his own body armour is? Isn't he supposedly the battle-hardened veteran?
6) How can the media show live feed of the man in charge of the anti terror wing in Mumbai - beaming his where abouts, what he is doing (putting on his helmet, talking on cell phone walking around in public etc.)? Doesn't the media have any responsibility to shield him and other strategically important personalities, who are prime targets for the militants and rogue elements?
7) Doesn't Mumbai, attacked many times by and remains a target of underworld and terrorists, have SWAT teams or special forces locally who should have responded immediately? Why did Mumbai have to wait for the NSG to come from Delhi - 10 hours later?
8) Militants/hijackers using hostages as shields is an age old, well known tactic. How can the NSG commandos and the security forces use it as a reason for their slow response that lasted days? Especially when the number of terrorists involved was at no time believed to be more than a dozen? What kind of message is it sending the rogue elements? That a major city could be taken siege by a handful for longer, if only they planned better?
9) Manmohan, Sonia, Advani, Narendra Modi and scores of other 'personalities' visited the 'battle field' while the operation is still very much on. Couldn't they have waited and focused their energies more on bringing a swifter end to the ordeal? The argument that they visited to instill confidence and raise morale in the security forces is BS at best. No sane Indian is looking to the politicians for confidence and a morale boost.
10) Couldn't the security forces have used some kind of controlled, tear gas or water ballast or something that would incapacitate the militants for a short period of time and swiftly moved in to over take them? Granted, even the hostages will be incapacitated for that period - but it must be better than having them killed by the militants, I think.
11) Will the country be vigilant here after to better repulse another militant attack or better yet prevent them?
12) Blaming Pakistan for such incidents is easy. But why did we allow it to happen on our land, so deep in crowded places? Aren't there any checks along the way that could have stopped the terrorists from reaching their chosen destination?
13) Is this attack the result of a systemic problem that needs to be addressed from the grassroots, social level? Or will constituting another institution that only adds to the bureaucratic confusion be chosen as the solution?
14) As my friend Vasantha asked on her facebook site: What can each one of us do, in our capacity, to kill [combat] terrorism?
I request each of you, who stopped by and took time to read this, to take another minute or two - and share your thoughts. Who knows where the next bright idea/suggestion for a better tomorrow comes from?!
Looking forward to a better tomorrow -
Swasti !!
Friday, November 28, 2008
Operation Over
Atlast, after 60 hours of tense and deadly moments, and continuous battle between the terrorists and the Indian commandos - the last terrorist holed up in the Taj Mahal Hotel has been gunned down and the Director General of NSG announced that the operation of taking control of the Taj is over. Now they will be scanning every inch of the hotel and sanitizing it before transferring the control to the local police.
Today a couple of the martyrs - Hemant Karkare (ATS chief) and Major Unnikrishnan from Bangalore are being cremated. I am sure we will read about their bravery and of others in the coming hours and days.
Hats off to you both and others who gave their lives so other innocent folks can live on! It's a great loss to India.
Jai Jawan!! Jai Hind!!!
Today a couple of the martyrs - Hemant Karkare (ATS chief) and Major Unnikrishnan from Bangalore are being cremated. I am sure we will read about their bravery and of others in the coming hours and days.
Hats off to you both and others who gave their lives so other innocent folks can live on! It's a great loss to India.
Jai Jawan!! Jai Hind!!!
Frontpages and Ads
While following all these drastic developments in Mumbai, I couldn't help but have a smile looking at the ads served on the front page of Andhrajyothi website - next to the Mumbai raging photos. Look at the following images I captured. Take it easy and share your own - if you can.
1) Are you thinking of getting married?
2) Plan your vacation better
2) Plan your vacation better
3) Then this ad - asking if you want to send money to India, with a funny typo (pampichchadam) in telugu.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Thank you
I am always thankful to my firends, family, colleagues and acquaintances - who help me all along my life - in various capacities. But most of all, on this unfortunate day, when Mumbai is under siege, I would like to thank the security forces battling bravely and laying down their lives for saving others'. They are offering the ultimate sacrifice and my heartfelt thanks to them and their families - for going through this suffering, so we don't have to suffer.
May the departed souls rest in peace - and may The Almighty shower his blessings on those left behind.
This past weekend, one of my friends passed away in sleep. She is just in her mid thirties - and left behind her husband and three little girls - including twins who are hardly 1 1/2 years old. I am very shocked to hear the news. We pray for the family and their well being.
Life seems so fleeting at times like these. And all the scriptures talk about it. But still, we try to fool ourselves into thinking we still have a long way to go. And make plans for 5 years from now, 10 years from now and after retirement. Of course, if we don't do that, and don't hope for the best - we can't live on. One thought crosses my mind often, though - if this were my last moment, am I prepared? Will my family be safe and have a secure future? And every time the answer is the same: I should be more watchful in what I do and say. Because, there may not be another opportunity for me to make amends before I leave for good.
And I am always thankful for The One for all that's given to me. I pray for good things for one and all.
Swasti !!
May the departed souls rest in peace - and may The Almighty shower his blessings on those left behind.
This past weekend, one of my friends passed away in sleep. She is just in her mid thirties - and left behind her husband and three little girls - including twins who are hardly 1 1/2 years old. I am very shocked to hear the news. We pray for the family and their well being.
Life seems so fleeting at times like these. And all the scriptures talk about it. But still, we try to fool ourselves into thinking we still have a long way to go. And make plans for 5 years from now, 10 years from now and after retirement. Of course, if we don't do that, and don't hope for the best - we can't live on. One thought crosses my mind often, though - if this were my last moment, am I prepared? Will my family be safe and have a secure future? And every time the answer is the same: I should be more watchful in what I do and say. Because, there may not be another opportunity for me to make amends before I leave for good.
And I am always thankful for The One for all that's given to me. I pray for good things for one and all.
Swasti !!
Media Control
Watching the media coverage, I can't help but wonder if some guidelines should be developed for the media outlets, atleast for times like these?
The reporters on the ground want to say 1000+ words in one breath; they rush themselves in doing so; use grandiose words without realizing what they are talking about and the reality on the ground; nor do they show any reverance, sometimes, to the sensitivities involved. How else would you explain a reporter saying - "Let's look at the 'drama' unfolding before our eyes here at the Nariman House"?
And another gushes out - 'this is along the lines of the 9/11 attacks' - again a fascination to be identified alongside the US. Why do you want to draw the parallels so soon? so early? while the disaster is still unfolding? Media is always looking for sensationalizing any and each incident/event. Is it necessary? Are the media outlets above the norms of public decency?
Some of the reporters on the field don't want to yield the floor back to the studio - and keep repeating themselves with the same information again and again, changing the order of their statements. This of course is not as much an issue as the other points I mention here in this post.
Then comes the most atrocious behaviour from the reporters. The anchor in the studio asks the field reporter the following questions:
Now look at the questions asked of the political leaders. The reporters ask provocative questions knowing very well what kind of responses they would get - and then try to sensationalize the responses. Case in point - some reporters asked Advani in Mumbai - "Advani ji, do you think this is an intelligence failure?". Advani could have just chosen not to answer it saying the situation is still developing and we have to see what the concerned officials say. But he chose to answer it in the affirmative. Even the Union home minister Shivraj Patil has agreed to intelligence failure. But CNN-IBN (not sure of the other channels, as I don't have access to them) channel announcers pounce on Advani for making such provocative and political statements on the day the security forces are still battling to save the hostages and capture the terrorists. What can one say of this reporting? Where has accountability gone?
I sincerely feel that the media role in similar and other incidents should be analyzed thoroughly and some guidelines should be developed. I am not a proponent of curbs on the media and free speech - but at the same time the media outlets need to know what to say and how to report various incidents. I would take a somber report on an incident of this magnitude and nature, any time, than the sensationalism we currently see. It's not helping the viewers, not soothing the friends and family of the victims; and more than any thing else, not at all aiding the security forces doing their job.
Take for example the case of the commandos and the number present at the incident. Shouldn't it be kept a secret as to how many commandos, what types of forces are at any given site - to act against the terrorists? If the media pries into each and every such detail and publishes/announces it - the masterminds behind the attacks (or future attacks) will also be reading/watching the news and take necessary counter actions. In fact, this has been a long standing peeve of the intelligence and security organizations world over - that the media should cut down on sensationalizing what they report - during the incident and leave the analysis for later. Details like this are not going to help the common man or even the friends and relatives of the victims even one bit. The media is doing more harm than good with their conduct.
Oh well - we will be slicing and dicing this incident and the reporting for many days, weeks and months to come; or atleast until the next media 'sensation'. May common sense prevail and God save humanity.
Swasti !!
The reporters on the ground want to say 1000+ words in one breath; they rush themselves in doing so; use grandiose words without realizing what they are talking about and the reality on the ground; nor do they show any reverance, sometimes, to the sensitivities involved. How else would you explain a reporter saying - "Let's look at the 'drama' unfolding before our eyes here at the Nariman House"?
And another gushes out - 'this is along the lines of the 9/11 attacks' - again a fascination to be identified alongside the US. Why do you want to draw the parallels so soon? so early? while the disaster is still unfolding? Media is always looking for sensationalizing any and each incident/event. Is it necessary? Are the media outlets above the norms of public decency?
Some of the reporters on the field don't want to yield the floor back to the studio - and keep repeating themselves with the same information again and again, changing the order of their statements. This of course is not as much an issue as the other points I mention here in this post.
Then comes the most atrocious behaviour from the reporters. The anchor in the studio asks the field reporter the following questions:
- How many commandos, do you think, have been assembled there?
- Which floor have the commandos reached? Is there any news or can you see from your position on the ground?
- Is it not dangerous for the commandos and their operations - if the terrorists inside know how many are coming at them? And which floor the commandos have reached so far?
- How many terrorists do they think are there all together? How many are participating in the Mumbai attacks and how many dispersed into the crowds and went to other places?
- What are they trying to gain by speculating these numbers? Shouldn't this be left to the Intelligence agencies to deal with? If the masterminds behind these attacks know that the intelligence agencies know about the exact number or the whereabouts of the remaining terrorists, won't they change their plans and make it that much more difficult for the Indian authorities to prevent further attacks? What are the media outlets trying to achieve by getting their "sources" to reveal such valuable intelligence information?
- Our sources tell us that the terrorists have rented a flat as well, to reside in the area and continue their attacks at other places, and they are here for a long haul.
- Will the terrorists stay back in their 'flat' now? They would have checked out and gone somewhere else.
Now look at the questions asked of the political leaders. The reporters ask provocative questions knowing very well what kind of responses they would get - and then try to sensationalize the responses. Case in point - some reporters asked Advani in Mumbai - "Advani ji, do you think this is an intelligence failure?". Advani could have just chosen not to answer it saying the situation is still developing and we have to see what the concerned officials say. But he chose to answer it in the affirmative. Even the Union home minister Shivraj Patil has agreed to intelligence failure. But CNN-IBN (not sure of the other channels, as I don't have access to them) channel announcers pounce on Advani for making such provocative and political statements on the day the security forces are still battling to save the hostages and capture the terrorists. What can one say of this reporting? Where has accountability gone?
I sincerely feel that the media role in similar and other incidents should be analyzed thoroughly and some guidelines should be developed. I am not a proponent of curbs on the media and free speech - but at the same time the media outlets need to know what to say and how to report various incidents. I would take a somber report on an incident of this magnitude and nature, any time, than the sensationalism we currently see. It's not helping the viewers, not soothing the friends and family of the victims; and more than any thing else, not at all aiding the security forces doing their job.
Take for example the case of the commandos and the number present at the incident. Shouldn't it be kept a secret as to how many commandos, what types of forces are at any given site - to act against the terrorists? If the media pries into each and every such detail and publishes/announces it - the masterminds behind the attacks (or future attacks) will also be reading/watching the news and take necessary counter actions. In fact, this has been a long standing peeve of the intelligence and security organizations world over - that the media should cut down on sensationalizing what they report - during the incident and leave the analysis for later. Details like this are not going to help the common man or even the friends and relatives of the victims even one bit. The media is doing more harm than good with their conduct.
Oh well - we will be slicing and dicing this incident and the reporting for many days, weeks and months to come; or atleast until the next media 'sensation'. May common sense prevail and God save humanity.
Swasti !!
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Black Wednesday
As we are eagerly awaiting the Thanksgiving holiday and the shopping deals that follow on Black Friday, news about the deadly blasts in Mumbai shocked us at home. Usha, coming back from the Nursing Home where she works on Wednesdays treating the elderly for their dental problems, heard it first on NPR's WAMC station. I then read the headlines in NYTimes.com. Truth be told, on a regular day, I keep checking the news sites once every 2 or 3 hours during the day - to catch up on what's happening. 'Obamania' for the past couple of years made it a regular item on my daily schedule. However, as Mahalakshmi was sent home from day care yesterday due to suspected rota virus, she's staying home, along with Chandra whose school is closed for the day. So, I didn't get a chance to check the news sites today. When Usha came home late in the afternoon, she mentioned this news.
At first I thought it's one of those terrorist bombings that have become a regular fixture in Indian metros these days - killing a dozen or so and wounding several dozens. Don't get me wrong - I am not callous to such news. I feel the pain for any and all such ghastly events. But it's only after reading the article in Indian news papers (Andhrajyothi and Rediff especially) that I realized the enormity of this dastardly act. Our Thanksgiving holiday is shot in spirit.
Excuse me for my useless rant here. I am so sick and tired of hearing the leaders in power reiterating time and again after such incidents: "We will not tolerate such cowardly acts of terrorism. We will do all in our power to root out the terrorists. We will not allow such incidents again... blah...blah...blah ... ". Haven't we all heard this empty rhetoric before? If they can't tolerate, what have they been doing? What steps are they taking to make India (or the world) a safer place? and to rid the world of terrorism? I am not naive/innocent to believe that terrorism can be rooted out. But the govts. should/can do more, I believe, with sincerity and integrity - to prevent such ghastly incidents.
Oh God! When will we see sincere politicians, with strategic vision for long-term growth of India than petty thinking for their own electoral and financial gains?
As I write this, I am reminded of a recent Hindi movie - which I read about. Wednesday - a movie with terrorism as the storyline, acted by Anupam Kher and Naseeruddin Shah. It received rave reviews and I plan on watching it sometime soon. I didn't expect such deadly incident happening on a Wednesday. Not sure if the terrorists got inspired by that movie, for all the wrong reasons.
I hope the local, state and central govts. in India wake up at least now; take immediate steps to prevent such incidents from taking place in more places; and constitute a task force to recommend long term remedial measures. And implement them without fear, favor or 'vote banks' in mind. I hope our political leaders don't let this kind of indifference lead to a failed state which could necessitate the army to take over the reins of power in the country (as is often the case with our neighbours). If that's the only way to revive public safety - then God! Save us all from peril!!
Our hearts go out to the lost souls and their families. 9/11 is still fresh in our minds. The victims will be in our prayers. May the souls of the deceased rest in peace! May the injured recover soon and get back to normal health.
Swasti !!
At first I thought it's one of those terrorist bombings that have become a regular fixture in Indian metros these days - killing a dozen or so and wounding several dozens. Don't get me wrong - I am not callous to such news. I feel the pain for any and all such ghastly events. But it's only after reading the article in Indian news papers (Andhrajyothi and Rediff especially) that I realized the enormity of this dastardly act. Our Thanksgiving holiday is shot in spirit.
Excuse me for my useless rant here. I am so sick and tired of hearing the leaders in power reiterating time and again after such incidents: "We will not tolerate such cowardly acts of terrorism. We will do all in our power to root out the terrorists. We will not allow such incidents again... blah...blah...blah ... ". Haven't we all heard this empty rhetoric before? If they can't tolerate, what have they been doing? What steps are they taking to make India (or the world) a safer place? and to rid the world of terrorism? I am not naive/innocent to believe that terrorism can be rooted out. But the govts. should/can do more, I believe, with sincerity and integrity - to prevent such ghastly incidents.
Oh God! When will we see sincere politicians, with strategic vision for long-term growth of India than petty thinking for their own electoral and financial gains?
As I write this, I am reminded of a recent Hindi movie - which I read about. Wednesday - a movie with terrorism as the storyline, acted by Anupam Kher and Naseeruddin Shah. It received rave reviews and I plan on watching it sometime soon. I didn't expect such deadly incident happening on a Wednesday. Not sure if the terrorists got inspired by that movie, for all the wrong reasons.
I hope the local, state and central govts. in India wake up at least now; take immediate steps to prevent such incidents from taking place in more places; and constitute a task force to recommend long term remedial measures. And implement them without fear, favor or 'vote banks' in mind. I hope our political leaders don't let this kind of indifference lead to a failed state which could necessitate the army to take over the reins of power in the country (as is often the case with our neighbours). If that's the only way to revive public safety - then God! Save us all from peril!!
Our hearts go out to the lost souls and their families. 9/11 is still fresh in our minds. The victims will be in our prayers. May the souls of the deceased rest in peace! May the injured recover soon and get back to normal health.
Swasti !!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Economy, Rescue and Recovery
As the Fed announced the $800 billion plan today, to finance consumer loans and to push down mortgage rates - I was left wondering why it took so long for the govt. to think of rescuing the people. It's been a month, almost, since the $700 billion plan was announced to rescue the financial institutions - after they began to fail/fall like a pack of dominoes.
It only reinforced my unscientific, personal belief that govts. all over only react immediately whenever the giants fall. The average consumer has been bleeding for more than a year now. Mortgage payments are being defaulted; houses are being foreclosed. Didn't the govt. foresee this? Had they taken steps earlier, the rescue could have been limited to a few hundred billion $$$ rather than running the bill into trillions as is happening now. We could have even saved a few bank failures and job losses in the process.
If an individual is not fiscally responsible and fails to make timely payments - s/he is made accountable and made to face the consequences (both financial and legal). However, when it comes to institutions, if they fail - the people running them are let go without any penalty. Often times, they are treated with a severance package as well. And if the debacle is very bad and the insttn. is very big, it is shored up with a rescue package. As we are witnessing now.
Therein lies the fundamental problem with the way peoples and economies are managed/governed, I feel. Be it capitalistic or socialistic - a democratic society will have to take care of the people, first and foremost. When the focus shifts to institutions rather than the people - such society is bound to fail sooner or later. People, after all, are the backbone of any society.
I am glad good sense prevailed on the Fed and Treasury folks at least now and they plan on helping the comman man who's hurt badly. But, again without any scientific evidence, my gut tells me that this economy will not start looking north again until the summer of 2010 - and that's 18 months away, at least. We haven't seen the worst yet.
Wishing and praying for good times -
Swasti !!
It only reinforced my unscientific, personal belief that govts. all over only react immediately whenever the giants fall. The average consumer has been bleeding for more than a year now. Mortgage payments are being defaulted; houses are being foreclosed. Didn't the govt. foresee this? Had they taken steps earlier, the rescue could have been limited to a few hundred billion $$$ rather than running the bill into trillions as is happening now. We could have even saved a few bank failures and job losses in the process.
If an individual is not fiscally responsible and fails to make timely payments - s/he is made accountable and made to face the consequences (both financial and legal). However, when it comes to institutions, if they fail - the people running them are let go without any penalty. Often times, they are treated with a severance package as well. And if the debacle is very bad and the insttn. is very big, it is shored up with a rescue package. As we are witnessing now.
Therein lies the fundamental problem with the way peoples and economies are managed/governed, I feel. Be it capitalistic or socialistic - a democratic society will have to take care of the people, first and foremost. When the focus shifts to institutions rather than the people - such society is bound to fail sooner or later. People, after all, are the backbone of any society.
I am glad good sense prevailed on the Fed and Treasury folks at least now and they plan on helping the comman man who's hurt badly. But, again without any scientific evidence, my gut tells me that this economy will not start looking north again until the summer of 2010 - and that's 18 months away, at least. We haven't seen the worst yet.
Wishing and praying for good times -
Swasti !!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Be Nice - Don't judge
This morning, while dropping Chandra (my first son) at school, I gave him the usual 'Safety Briefing' and added 'Be Nice' at the end - fresh from the weekend experiences when he joined Datta and almost turned the house upside down. To that, he immediately shot back - 'I am always nice'. I found myself struck by it. Or may be he felt the unspoken undertones of how I said it - as if to suggest he was not nice and better pull your act together!
After all, he is just four-and-a-half years, and a good kid. Often times I wonder if we robbed him of his childhood by having his brother when he was still one-and-a-half. And then having his sister a couple of years there after. Because, he is already playing big brother when he himself is so little. It did give him a sense of authority and pride. But at the same time, I think, he also at times feels there are smaller kids than him at home, who look up to him.
Of course, that doesn't stop him from being as naughty as he can be sometimes. And coupled with Datta, that's what he had over the weekend. That was sure to raise my blood pressure and question if I should rethink of doing some things differently. For example -
1) I am always skeptical of having the kids sleep in their own beds when they are still too little. For one thing, I feel it makes them feel insecure - although the western culture argues the exact opposite.
2) The next point I ponder over is whether or not we made the right decision to put him in a public school for Pre-K, even though there's a Pre-K available in the Day-Care he has been going to for over 3 years now - and which helped nurture his developing abilities.
3) Are we doing enough as good parents - should I spend more time over the weekend and take them to Indian cultural classes conducted at the local temple where they teach the religious hymns, tell moral stories and talk about good manners etc?
4) May be I should get into the habit of reading/telling stories that I was told when I was a kid (and generations before me, in India) - to inculcate good manners in them
5) these and many more such thoughts flash through my mind whenever I see something 'not to my liking' in them.
And then the other part of me rationalizes with me saying he is a little kid - and he is just being a little kid. No point over analyzing things that kids naturally do. It's all part of their growing up process. I guess it's a situation all parents go and grow through, at times questioning their own parenting skills and reassuring that they are just being themselves and there's nothing to be concerned about, after all. Or is it just me, thinking wishfully that I am part of a bigger group of like parents?
So anyway - getting back to the plot of this post - when Chandra gave me that response 'I am nice' - I resolved (for n'th time) in my mind - not to be judgemental. That's one thing I keep working on - and this incident reinforced me to be more vigilant about what I say and how I say it. Because kids take it from their parents easily and as a gold standard. I did not mean he was not nice earlier, but probably the way I said it gave it up. And if his little mind was able to pick it up, I think I really messed it up. By being careful myself, I can help him grow into a person better than me. I have been trying myself for years to become a ' better me' - and I tell ya'... I am still working on it :)
Swasti!
After all, he is just four-and-a-half years, and a good kid. Often times I wonder if we robbed him of his childhood by having his brother when he was still one-and-a-half. And then having his sister a couple of years there after. Because, he is already playing big brother when he himself is so little. It did give him a sense of authority and pride. But at the same time, I think, he also at times feels there are smaller kids than him at home, who look up to him.
Of course, that doesn't stop him from being as naughty as he can be sometimes. And coupled with Datta, that's what he had over the weekend. That was sure to raise my blood pressure and question if I should rethink of doing some things differently. For example -
1) I am always skeptical of having the kids sleep in their own beds when they are still too little. For one thing, I feel it makes them feel insecure - although the western culture argues the exact opposite.
2) The next point I ponder over is whether or not we made the right decision to put him in a public school for Pre-K, even though there's a Pre-K available in the Day-Care he has been going to for over 3 years now - and which helped nurture his developing abilities.
3) Are we doing enough as good parents - should I spend more time over the weekend and take them to Indian cultural classes conducted at the local temple where they teach the religious hymns, tell moral stories and talk about good manners etc?
4) May be I should get into the habit of reading/telling stories that I was told when I was a kid (and generations before me, in India) - to inculcate good manners in them
5) these and many more such thoughts flash through my mind whenever I see something 'not to my liking' in them.
And then the other part of me rationalizes with me saying he is a little kid - and he is just being a little kid. No point over analyzing things that kids naturally do. It's all part of their growing up process. I guess it's a situation all parents go and grow through, at times questioning their own parenting skills and reassuring that they are just being themselves and there's nothing to be concerned about, after all. Or is it just me, thinking wishfully that I am part of a bigger group of like parents?
So anyway - getting back to the plot of this post - when Chandra gave me that response 'I am nice' - I resolved (for n'th time) in my mind - not to be judgemental. That's one thing I keep working on - and this incident reinforced me to be more vigilant about what I say and how I say it. Because kids take it from their parents easily and as a gold standard. I did not mean he was not nice earlier, but probably the way I said it gave it up. And if his little mind was able to pick it up, I think I really messed it up. By being careful myself, I can help him grow into a person better than me. I have been trying myself for years to become a ' better me' - and I tell ya'... I am still working on it :)
Swasti!
Saturday, November 22, 2008
First or Second?
Henry Ford once said:
Before I went to bed last night, I was thinking of what to write next. Until I started the blog, I had several thoughts in my mind - on what to write about, how to organize it, how I can make it useful for myself - and for others, who take the time to stop by and read, as well. Then, when I hit the bed - my mind drew a blank. Have no clue what I am going to write about next. I could never clear my mind of random thoughts - so I can concentrate on something. But when I really needed some thoughts to write about - nothing was coming to my mind.
Then the above said quote came to my mind...and I was thinking - 'well...I got started. Wrote my first few lines. It should be a roll from here - but why can't I go on?' Is it just me? Or do other bloggers go through this? Is it the first post that's difficult? or is it the second, the third and then the fourth as well that are difficult to log? The first one came easily - as I am allowed some leeway for being a novice. But what should I cover in the next one - without looking stupid (well - others needn't know that :)) So thinking, I dozed off at some point, don't know when.
This morning - after going through the routine of helping to get the kids ready for the day - I logged in and checked my blog. What was I thinking and looking for? A bunch of comments from random visitors? A few blog followers? Or an opening for my next post? Well - one of those; and all of those. Then it occurred to me - how about just writing it out? Of course, I know I can't pull this off all the time - but at least my second post is covered. After all, the quote above does have some value, doesn't it? :)
You will know how it goes for the next post, without me being explicit about it. Until then -
Swasti !!
'Before anything else, getting started [ready] is the secret ofAnd I believe in it. Not that I follow it all the time - but that doesn't stop me from believing it. So, when it came to blogging, I thought it would apply as well. After a long time - some of which was spent thinking about starting a blog - I finally took the first step towards creating my own blog here yesterday.
success'.
Before I went to bed last night, I was thinking of what to write next. Until I started the blog, I had several thoughts in my mind - on what to write about, how to organize it, how I can make it useful for myself - and for others, who take the time to stop by and read, as well. Then, when I hit the bed - my mind drew a blank. Have no clue what I am going to write about next. I could never clear my mind of random thoughts - so I can concentrate on something. But when I really needed some thoughts to write about - nothing was coming to my mind.
Then the above said quote came to my mind...and I was thinking - 'well...I got started. Wrote my first few lines. It should be a roll from here - but why can't I go on?' Is it just me? Or do other bloggers go through this? Is it the first post that's difficult? or is it the second, the third and then the fourth as well that are difficult to log? The first one came easily - as I am allowed some leeway for being a novice. But what should I cover in the next one - without looking stupid (well - others needn't know that :)) So thinking, I dozed off at some point, don't know when.
This morning - after going through the routine of helping to get the kids ready for the day - I logged in and checked my blog. What was I thinking and looking for? A bunch of comments from random visitors? A few blog followers? Or an opening for my next post? Well - one of those; and all of those. Then it occurred to me - how about just writing it out? Of course, I know I can't pull this off all the time - but at least my second post is covered. After all, the quote above does have some value, doesn't it? :)
You will know how it goes for the next post, without me being explicit about it. Until then -
Swasti !!
Friday, November 21, 2008
Om
Om Namah! Sivayah!
Siddham Namah!
a aa e ee vu voo . . . .
Thus starts a typical, orthodox Andhra Hindu kid's entry into the literary world!! With the father or a grandfather or another respected elder in the family or friends orchestrating the tiny fingers of the little kid sitting in the lap to write the above mentioned, age old, first written words and letters of life! Strange as it might sound - those words come first and then come the alphabet. Well - ok! The intent is not to teach the kid those words first. It's just a traditional start.
Thus starts my foray into the blogosphere! As they say and as the title above shouts out - I will share my notes, thoughts and views - from time to time. If nothing else, this would serve as a good journal of myself henceforth - for myself. With little Chandra, Datta and Mahalakshmi at home - I am sure I will have something to share from their words of wizardom as well.
Swasti!
Note: Swasti (Sanskrit) - a compound of Su (well), and Asti (it is); meaning It is well. A salutation meaning, may it be well with thee!
Siddham Namah!
a aa e ee vu voo . . . .
Thus starts a typical, orthodox Andhra Hindu kid's entry into the literary world!! With the father or a grandfather or another respected elder in the family or friends orchestrating the tiny fingers of the little kid sitting in the lap to write the above mentioned, age old, first written words and letters of life! Strange as it might sound - those words come first and then come the alphabet. Well - ok! The intent is not to teach the kid those words first. It's just a traditional start.
Thus starts my foray into the blogosphere! As they say and as the title above shouts out - I will share my notes, thoughts and views - from time to time. If nothing else, this would serve as a good journal of myself henceforth - for myself. With little Chandra, Datta and Mahalakshmi at home - I am sure I will have something to share from their words of wizardom as well.
Swasti!
Note: Swasti (Sanskrit) - a compound of Su (well), and Asti (it is); meaning It is well. A salutation meaning, may it be well with thee!
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